On softs i feel its all about comfort and flexibility, if both feel right then that's it sorted although if it was only that simple. Gloves i find can at times have too much protection and don't feel comfortable or flexible, ant the same can be said for pads too bulky and rigid which is no good at all.
Gloves i find sausage style work best for me and stick pittards on them and that's pretty much sorted although i like good protection but i don't want that to mean they are bulky etc. As in terms of cosmetics I'm not that hard to please, i like the basic white and silver look although i also like some of the bolder looks and colours like the 2008 kook beast gloves.
Pads well thats a whole different ball game, what i want is a 2 strp version thats is fitted but flexible and in no way rigid like some 2 strap pads. If you can design that then your onto a winnner.